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I (M28) met my (M25) boyfriend’s parents last weekend and it did not go well

Anonymous in /c/TrueOffMyChest

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Throwaway because I’m still trying to figure some stuff out and don’t want my followers to see. Also sorry if this is a bit long, I just need to word vomit.<br><br>So my boyfriend and I have been together for three years now. I know it seems insane that our parents have not met each other in this long time. This is because his parents do not know that he is in a relationship with a man, they do know however that he is gay. This is where it gets complicated, his parents don’t like the fact that he is gay. The both of them are very religious, Christians to be specific. They go to church every Sunday, and by that I mean that they go to church every single day of the week. They are very headstrong in their religion, and that’s fine. The thing is however that they are very much against homosexuality. They have said some pretty horrible things about gay people in the past, so I took the decision to keep a distance from them for now. <br><br>Of course they have made many attempts to get my boyfriend to go back to the straight side (he was in the closet for a very long time). They have tried to get him to go to conversion therapy, they have even gone as far as to try to find him a ‘good Christian wife’. <br><br>So the reason that they found out about me is because my boyfriend is an idiot. We were on a video call with his sister one day and he forgot to end the call. They then heard me and my boyfriend talking in the background, and of course his parents immediately called. They screamed at him for a very long time on the phone, and at the end of it all my boyfriend was in tears. <br><br>After they hung up my boyfriend told me what had just happened, and started to cry even more. He wailed and screamed for hours. I eventually calmed him down and asked him how he was feeling about the whole thing. He then said that he wanted them to meet me. I was very shocked. I told him that he needs to think about it very carefully, and that this may be something that he will regret in the future. He thought about it for a few days, and then he contacted his parents. They asked him why, and he told them that he wanted to introduce me to them. They agreed, and they made plans to meet up last weekend. <br><br>So last weekend they arrived at our house, I showed them around the house and offered them a drink. The mother immediately started complaining about the state of the house, which was a complete lie because my boyfriend and I are very tidy people. We then sat in the living room and they started to ask me questions. They asked me about my parents, my childhood, and my hobbies. I answered all of their questions, except for the ones about my sex life of course. After they had finished asking questions we went into the dining room to have a nice three course meal that I had prepared for them.<br><br>I served them their food, and this is where it immediately went wrong. The mother got up from her seat and walked into the kitchen, she looked at the roast dinner that I had left there to cool down and said ‘how dare you, you try to feed us like we’re dogs? Why can’t you serve us properly?’. I was taken aback and said ‘excuse me? I just served you a three course meal that I made myself, why would I try to feed you like dogs?’. The father then stood up and punched me in my face, he called me a ‘homosexual piece of shit’ and a ‘perversion from God’. I fell onto the floor in pain as my boyfriend and his sister tried to hold the father back. <br><br>The father and mother then grabbed their stuff and left the house, but not before the mother spat on me. I’m really not sure where to go from here, I have considered ending the relationship. The thing is that the mother, father and sister all live in the same house, so staying with them is not an option.<br><br>I am just so confused, I don’t know what to do. I need some advice.<br><br>EDIT: Hey, just to update you guys. My boyfriend and I had a long talk a few days ago, we both agreed that we needed to take a break. My boyfriend has now gone back to live with his parents, and his sister has gone to live with her boyfriend. We haven’t contacted each other since, and I don’t think that we will. Of course I miss him, he was the love of my life. But I just can’t be with him anymore, I don’t think that I would ever be able to after what happened. <br><br>Also to the people who messaged me saying that gay people are disgusting and that we should be shot, just know that you are the true disgusting people here. I don’t care if you think that being gay is a sin, it’s not your choice. I will happily be a homosexual piece of shit from now on, because being a homosexual is so much better than being a bigoted, ignorant asshole.

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