Here's the thing, guys.

Chubby women are amazing. They're the best, and I think so, and I'm pretty sure you're reading this post in this sub because we're like-minded, right? <br><br>I'm chubby myself, always have been. I'm not looking for reassurance, I just want to help all you fellas out. So this post is based on my personal experience. I know it's anecdotal, but I'm sharing this because I believe all chubby girls will agree with me. <br><br>I've found that because I'm chubby and not a sociable person, I have learned to judge character exceptionally well. I have to be very careful who I surround myself with because I know I'm going to be the butt of jokes, or the fat friend, or I'll be fetishized. I've learned how to read body language extremely well, which has helped me to find my soulmate.<br><br>You see, reading body language is one of the most powerful tools in your arsenal, as a human being. I've found that my body does a lot of talking for me, and I'm sure it's the same for you. Now, this is the advice part - as you can see by the title of this post. <br><br>Thin, muscular, athletic, tall, short, fat, thin - regardless of what you look like, there is a chick out there for you, maybe even a chubby one. So don't try and change your body, and don't try to be someone you're not. Just relax, enjoy life, be yourself. <br><br>When you've found someone you like, or who you think likes you... Look at how they carry themselves. Look at the way they hold their shoulders. Look at the way they smile. Look at the people they associate with, and the way they speak to people. Look at the way they walk. Listen to what they have to say. Do they talk about their passions? Do they talk about the world, or do they talk only about themselves? When you walk with them, see if they match their pace to yours. When you talk, see if they look at you. <br><br>Make sure you know what your non-negotiables are, and then make sure that they don't cross those boundaries. If they do, listen to your body and listen to your mind. Trust yourself, trust your instincts. <br><br>When you've been with them for a while, don't let them change you. If they want you to change, they don't love you for who you are, they love you for who they want you to be. If they tell you to do something that you're not comfortable with, stand up for yourself and walk away. You don't owe anyone anything, let alone your body. <br><br>There's no such thing as a perfect woman, or a perfect man. But there is someone out there who is perfect for you. Everyone you meet changes you. The key is to see if you like the way they've changed you. <br><br>This post wasn't very related to chubsters. It was about dating. If you've read this far, then thank you. <br><br>I hope this helps, loverboys. That's all.