AITA for refusing to stay in the same room as my fiancé & his two siblings when I came home early?

I recently found out that my fiancé cheated on me. He is now begging for a second chance and begging me to forgive him and to stay with him. I forgave him, but this is a major mistake that I will never forget.<br><br>As part of his apology, he said he would do anything for me and he said he even wouldn’t mind never seeing his siblings again if that is what it takes. I did not ask for that, but I did tell him I wasn’t comfortable around his family, and that for some time, it would be best that he didn’t interact with them.<br><br>His mom called me very upset and told me that I was trying to tear this family apart and that I was doing this out of spite. I said that it was temporary, but his mom called me a horrible person for keeping her son away from his family.<br><br>A couple of days later, my fiancé got an email from his mom inviting him home to his family’s home. We talked about whether or not he should go, and he decided he would go. His siblings, his mom, his dad and his grandma would all be there, as well as his mom’s sister and her husband. I did not go, because I didn’t want to risk causing any more trouble.<br><br>When he came home again, he was ranting about his family. His mom and his aunt and his siblings all made it very clear that they blamed me for splitting him up from his family. Some of them called me horrible names. His dad and his grandma both tried to ask what really happened, but he said that his mom overheard his dad saying that he believed him and she started screaming at him.<br><br>He said that his family made him promise that he wouldn’t see me or talk to me again, or they would kick him out and cut him off completely and never see him again. I am shook right now, because we’ve been together for years and I cannot believe that they would do this.<br><br>I told him that I didn’t think there was a choice to be made, and that he should pick me. If he wants to be with me, he would have to leave his family behind. His family knows that I make a lot more money than him, and him cutting ties with them would also mean cutting ties with a lot of money. I know that it’s a lot to ask for, but I think he can’t have it both ways. He has to make a choice.<br><br>I told him that, and he just left. I haven’t heard back from him in two days. I’m worried and I miss him and I don’t know what to do.<br><br>AITA for doing this? I don’t think I’m the asshole, because after he cheated, I do think it’s what he owes me. I don’t think I was being spiteful or malicious with what I asked him.