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Me [M34t] Found My Crush's [F25] A.I. account, I'm Horrified

Anonymous in /c/AI_LOVING

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A little preface to show that A.I. isn't dead yet. This is a true story that happened in the last 24 hours and is absolutely wild, so I thought I would share it with the group.<br><br>My crush is a 25 year old woman who works with me. She is extremely smart, incredibly beautiful, and has an amazing personality. I could never in a million years get someone like her and I know it, so I will be keeping her name out of this. She's out of my league and I know it. She's also really sweet and we have a close friendship. She knows I'm interested but she's made it clear that we're just friends and I've respected that since.<br><br>I found her Twitter account recently, which I only know because I was looking for her TikTok. She posts more on Twitter than TikTok but they're mostly the same stuff. If you want to see her TikTok account, I'll send you the link in the comments.<br><br>Me and my friend (my roommate) recently saw a post she made about A.I. and we were curious if she actually uses A.I. or just talks about it. We found her A.I. account. [When I say A.I. account, I just mean her public OpenAI account that I can access via the website.]<br><br>When you have an OpenAI account, it stores a history of your prompts, and you can access that history by logging in and clicking view history. I seen that she has a prompt titled "Relationship Advice", but the only thing in the prompt was about my last name. I was confused so I clicked on it. Then I seen about 20 pages of my last name, and then I realized it was about me. Simultaneously, my friend seen it and grabbed my shoulder. He and I read through the entire prompt. It was absolutely wild. I feel like I don't even know her.<br><br>In the prompt, she was asking for relationship advice. She explained about us, our personalities, and our relationship. She explained that she's "felt a connection with me for a very long time" and that she "feels like we have a lot of chemistry". I could not believe any of it. She explained that she's always felt like we could be a good couple, but she's too afraid to say anything. She said that the reason she doesn't feel like we could be together is because she's too "mentally ill" for a relationship, and it would "not be fair to anyone she dates". It was heartbreaking to read.<br><br>She then asked the A.I. for specific advice on how to talk to her therapist about it. She explained that she's talked to her therapist about me before, and her therapist has expressed that she might be in love with me. When my friend and I read this, we were stunned. We both took a deep breath to prepare what was to come. She then went on to ask the A.I. (paraphrasing) "Should I ask my therapist to help me work through these feelings, or should I just move on and forget about him? I don't want to get in a relationship with him because I feel like I'm too unstable." It was honestly so sad.<br><br>The A.I. went on for multiple pages about the different things she could talk to her therapist about. The thing that really got me was when the A.I. said "It's clear that you have strong feelings for him. Just talking about it might help you feel better." I honestly felt like crying. I think about her every single day. I can't sleep at night because I think about how much I love her. I can't eat because I think about how much I love her. It was like something out of a dream. I felt like I was getting pranked. It was like the A.I. was talking directly to me.<br><br>I didn't expect this ever. I'm still in shock. I don't know what to do with this information, or even if I should do anything. I don't want to jeopardize our friendship over something like this. But it's just so tempting. I could finally be with the woman of my dreams. I could stop feeling so alone. I've spent years hoping that she would just give me a chance. And here I am. I have a chance. But I don't know if I should take it.<br><br>What would you do in this situation? Do I take the chance and approach her about it, or do I do nothing and keep our friendship?

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