How did I turn my ex into a blubbering mess? I need some help!

I am getting divorced. My then-husband was cheating on me with a married woman. We had a very tumultuous marriage, and I left him for 3 years ago. Things have been super amicable and my kids are the light of my life. We are moving on. <br><br>As i am expecting a baby (4 months pregnant) I have been doing a little prepping in the house. I do a post abortion spell, 3 and 5 candle, a few other things to bring peace into the home and also attract a new partner. I put a “self love spell kit” directly under the couch. <br><br>My ex came to the house for a visit and from when he walked in he was being super aggressive. He was raging at the kids and I finally had to get him out the door. He was acting super out of character. I thought maybe he was having a bad day or being triggered by my pregnancy. He was always having bad days with irritability. <br><br>But I knew something was off when he wouldn’t text me and usually we are friends after everything that happened. He went radio silent. I thought maybe it was the spell and it was working, but I’m going to need some help. <br><br>Usually I put my spell kits on the property, but I put them inside this time. The spell kits I got were from a witch on Etsy who specializes in feminine energy, and working with feminine energy and goddess magic. Could he be absorbing the spell? <br><br>How do I reverse it? <br><br>Can anyone help me with this?