AITA for emptying my daughters college fund to pay for her brothers medical care and my divorce lawyer?

This is a taylor swift inspired post after what happened at Eras 3 in Chicago. <br><br>My son, Jordan, was three years old and my daughter, Jordanette, was 13 when my husband cheated on me. The $200k I had saved for Jordanette’s education was used in part on her brother’s three years of hospitalizations, and the rest went to my divorce lawyer. <br><br>Now she blames me for the fact that she can barely scrape by on her waitressing tips while still living in my basement. <br><br>AITA?