[UPDATE] My girlfriend (23F) is terrace-phobic (has a fear of balconies) and I (25M) saved a man from falling off one last night and now my girlfriend wants to break up with me

r/relationship_advice. I wanted to let guys know that she said she was willing to give it a chance. I told her I was headed to her place last night and, when I got there, she said she was embarrassed and that she was going to get therapy. She said that it was her problem and if she was serious about me she couldn't keep letting it interfere. She said she was sorry, that that wasn't her and she wants to be better. <br><br>I told her I would support her and that I understood because it probably hurt and embarrassed her to feel that way; I said I loved her and that I would stick with her as long as she would let me. She thanked me and said she was going to change her mindset but that she was also going to leave her job. She said she was done with the night shifts and she was going to go to school in the morning so she could be more awake and alert when I was. <br><br>She said she was going to go the extra mile because she loved me and she wants to be there for me too. I really think she means it. I'm going to support her, I love her so where else am I going to be than right there with her? <br><br>Thanks so much to all of you, I really needed help and some reassurance that we would be okay.