Fiancé came home from war an alcoholic

A little background about our story; we were together for 2 years before he joined the military. It was a long, hard journey but we made it through. He got out of the military early to be with me through a very hard time in my life, and then he proposed a few months later. We are 24 years old each and have been together for almost 6 years. <br><br>He went to war, and came back as an alcoholic. Completely changed. I don’t think it’s a lack of trying, but I’m burning out very fast and can’t see us getting married at this point because of how bad he drinks. He used to never drink prior to joining the military. <br><br>I fully take responsibility that I should have sought help elsewhere but I’ve been doing my best to deal with this on my own because he refuses to go to therapy, and will not admit he has a problem and needs help. I’m exhausted, and I think we need professional help but he will not admit it. I don’t think we should get married if he’s an alcoholic and I don’t want to be married to him if he’s like this. I love him but I don’t want to be with him like this. <br><br>I feel guilty. <br><br>I’m exhausted. <br><br>I miss him. <br><br>I don’t know what to do, so I’m here.