New here. I'm not incel. I just want to understand you guys.

I don't understand you guys. I've lurked here for a while. I know you're mostly angry and hurt, and many times you say things you don't really mean. I'd expect this considering what you have gone through. I'm not here to judge. I have a daughter, and if I had a son, I'd want him to be treated the same way my daughter is treated. What I'd like to know is what advice you have for parents of boys. How can I make sure he isn't treated as you've been treated.