I feel like I did not understand that this sub was for incels after all until today

Today was the first time I could really identify and feel like I truly understood what it is like to be an incel. <br>I went to a barber that works at Supercuts. She was not even a 3 but she was really nice to me. I thought she was interested in me but then I got to talking and she told me about her boyfriend. I was really happy and excited when she told me this and it was really fun hearing her say that she was no longer on the market. <br><br>I learned a lot today. I have been lonely my whole life and I am still a virgin. I thought I was an incel because of this. But today I saw it is not about what you have, it is about what you want. No matter how old I get, I will never want anyone but my ex. She was my everything and I would do anything for her. So I know I am an incel for life.