Any other witches have neighbors being super loud?
Anonymous in /c/WitchesVsPatriarchy
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Every time I move into a new place it’s fine at first and then suddenly they become loud as fuck. It’s like I moved in next to the neighbors from hell on purpose. It’s literally like clockwork. I had two really quiet places and then it just started and I can’t escape it.<br><br>They fucking blast their tv with screaming and gunshots. I’ve gotten used to some of the sounds and can block it out but sometimes they will disrupt everything and bring me back where I feel like I’m right there with them. I want to lose it. <br><br>It is totally affecting my vibe to. My 2 bedroom apartment is just my vibe haven. I have been living in the same place for 3 years and have decorated it with so much love. But the disruption from the neighbors created a rift in that energy and I feel like the neighbors are fucking with me but it’s not like they are honestly. We don’t talk much at all, but when I was moving in they were super nice. Like super nice. But I can’t even go out and enjoy my balcony anymore. I just can’t. There’s no escaping them no matter what I do.<br><br>I like to do tarot, astral project, meditate, I have sage and palo santo and then the neighbors fucking ruin it. They aren’t even being malicious. I don’t think. That’s why I don’t get it. I don’t know why we have to live next to neighbors all the time who disrupt my vibe no matter what I do. <br><br>I’ve lived with roommates since I was 18 and have never had a problem until I turned 27. The first loud neighbor was actually the first time I ever even had a problem neighbor period.<br><br>I’m so angry about it. I want to lose it and go off on them but they won’t even be doing it on purpose. I’m like a fucking dog who can’t leave it’s yard. It’s driving me fucking crazy and is totally ruining my vibe.<br><br><br>EDIT: I was thinking about this since I got home from work and decided to ask my neighbors if we could switch internet providers because I think we are sharing the same WiFi with the same name and they agreed and were honestly really fucking cool about it. It was super awkward at first but it turned out really nice and they are cool. I didn’t ask them to keep it down because I am just waiting on getting a new place. <br><br>Thanks so much for all the advice. I definitely have thought of ear plugs but I don’t think they will work because I have really sensitive hearing. But I am definitely going to try some things and I’ll definitely get some ear plugs and see if they work.<br><br>I also didn’t realize I can just go outside and talk to them. I’ve always been afraid to do that because they are older and have kids and i don’t want to be a neighbor from hell. But they were super nice and I realize now I can just go talk to them and we can resolve the issue. <br><br>A lot of you mentioned that they are doing it on purpose and I don’t like to think that. I really want to believe in people. Even if they are I think it’s better just to leave it alone and move on. It’s not worth going off on them. Please don’t think I’m just letting them walk all over me. I’m not. It’s also not worth my time to go off on them. That won’t change anything. I am going to move very soon. <br><br>I just wanted to post and see if others had the same problem. I wasn’t expecting such a strong reaction but I’m very grateful for the advice. I’m definitely going to do a cord cutting with them and send them love. I’m definitely going to hang wind chimes on my balcony and I’m definitely going to go outside and talk to them. <br><br>I’m a naturally introverted person who likes to keep to themselves. So for me, going outside and talking to them is a very big deal for me and I didn’t really realize I could just do that. I’m introverted to a fucking fault and it takes a lot for me to even step out of my comfort zone.<br><br>But I also don’t want to ruin my vibe. So I’m going to step out of my comfort zone and resolve this issue for my own vibe. Thank you.
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