It's so fucking annoying how men only let their truly feminine women friends touch them but as soon as a woman is a little bit masculine they are like "nope not a real woman."

Lemme explain because I know it sounds like complete bullshit lol. But I have noticed this is true.<br><br>I have a feminine face and hands and but my body is way more masculine because I'm an athlete and I just have a small waist and big shoulders and ass. Reminder that we don't have as much fat as men so when I say fat, I'm not talking much. So I have about 1/3 less fat than the average girl (by average I mean average for this weight and height).<br><br>I was hanging out with a group of my guy friends and they were wrestling and beating each other and stuff and one of them rolled over into me and gave me a couple of (fully clothed, non-sexual) love smacks. Only on my arms and chest. I have a lot of muscle on my arms. I don't really have breasts. A lot of my guy friends are like this, they're very touchy with me and give me love taps and stuff. But I have noticed they don't do this with other girls. I think they would prefer me to be more feminine but it's just not who I am. I don't mind because I know it's just out of boredom and not sexual. But they do this with the more feminine girls too, and those girls are always like "eww gross, I'm a lady don't touch me." I think my guys friends would prefer the feminine girls to be more touchy but they respect their boundaries.<br><br>On the other hand, I have noticed men can be really touchy with other men who are masculine, which is why I don't think they do this with feminine girls because the girls don't want them to. But I have been in situations with men who are very touchy and it's not sexual, they're just bored and want to have fun. The masculine girls they are more standoffish with. I was talking to a guy I used to work with when I was still in high school and he said he used to feel this way about me, that he wanted to mess around with me and be playful but he respected me and thought I was strong so he didn't. He also admitted that he would sometimes get a little intimidated by me when he was drunk. (Also just to clarify, we were both 15 at the time, we're both adults now).<br><br>Sorry this post is so long, but that's not really the point. The point is that these guys don't act this way with other girls. They are more standoffish and respectful with them. I think this is because they don't believe more masculine girls are real women but they think more masculine men are real men.<br><br>I know this post is really confusing and I'm sorry for that. I'm just trying to use an example to convey a broader idea. I know it's not really obviously true. What I think is happening when these guys mess around with me or are more touchy is that they see me as a fellow person, not just as a woman. They don't look at me and think "oh, she's a woman. That's really hot." They just look at me and think "oh, she's a person like me."<br><br>And don't try to come at me with your "inverse sexism" bullshit. I know you don't really give a shit about women, you just want to protect your right to be sexist.