Cheated on and I should deal with it?

So I made a stupid mistake today. I posted on this sub in one of my worst moments and asked what I should do and in my naivety I genuinely believed I would get advice from people who want to help. And i guess I did. But that was alright. Confirmed what I knew really. <br><br>But then I got a few comments from people telling me it was all my fault that my boyfriend cheated on me. Because I was weak. Because I’m a pathetic loser. I should lose weight. I should just die. Because I’m not independent enough. Because I should find a new job, I hate my job why do I even stay in it. Because I’m a bitch, because I’m a whore, I don’t deserve him and I should get over it.<br><br>I may have made a mistake by posting here but what I got in return was not advice but pure vitriol. <br><br>What is wrong with people that they think it’s ok to treat others like that. I was in a low place and I reached out for help and I was spat on. I may even delete this post. I don’t know or care if anyone will see it but I want to put it out there. What is wrong with humanity these days? We as a people are becoming more divided and more horrible. I thought the internet was a place to connect with others but I’ve never seen it so divisive. <br><br>Be kind to people. Treat others with respect and compassion. Be people who make a change. Make people feel like they can reach out without having to fear being treated badly. We all make mistakes. <br><br>The people who commented on my post telling me I should die because my boyfriend cheated on me. You should be ashamed of yourselves. You are horrible people.