I'm sorry, but..... we lost

I'm 32 years old, I was 16 when I started joining online communities. From my teen years on, I perceived a change in society. Perceived kneeling men and more and more self-absorbed, shallow women in my surroundings. I joined Chambers communities talking about it, such as r/TwoXIndia (Indian analog for r/TwoX). I wasn't mad at women, I was just sad that the world was changing in ways that everything seemed to be so transactional and shallow. I wanted to find a partner in a world that was increasingly being turned into a mere business transaction.<br><br>Fast forward, I'm 32 years old. I've got a career, decent amount of money, a home of my own. My own business on the side. I've been on countless dates, with countless women. Got married twice, with the first one ending in divorce and the second engagement being called off. I've got a kid with my first wife, and hence I'm a part time single dad.<br><br>Today I came to the harsh realization that it's over. We've lost. I've been posting on these communities for half my life, and it's all for nothing. It's all over, and the world today is what it is, and tomorrow it will be even more transactional and shallow. I will probably never find a partner, at least not one that I will be happy with. I've got money, my own home and a kid, and other than that, there is just emptiness.<br><br>When I was 16, I was mildly angry at the women. I'm not mad anymore, I'm just sad. The world isn't going to change, and I'm not going to find a partner that I can be happy with. I'm not angry, but today I am sad, hence writing this post. I'm not sure if any woman will ever love me for who I am.<br><br>PS - If you are a woman, and you think you can change my mind, please make your pitch. I'm all ears.