The majority of men who lose their wives/gf due to divorce, and start dating younger women, are not “trophy husbands”, just older men with no standards dating younger low quality women.

I think we can all agree that for us single men, there’s nothing worse than an old, low quality (fat/ugly/stupid) woman who thinks she can land a good man just because she’s a woman.<br><br>Unfortunately, the same cannot be said about the majority of married men whose wives leave them. <br><br>It’s not uncommon to see a 45 years old ex-husband who was stuck in a loveless marriage with a woman who more or less took him for granted, only for him to find a “younger” partner(usually 28-35, and by younger I mean younger than the ex-wife, not necessarily what the average man would consider “young”) and for the couple to be labelled “Couple Goals” and for him to be considered a “Trophy Husband”. <br><br>Nothing can be further from the truth. The majority of these women are low quality, they’re usually single mothers, they’re overweight if not obese, they have very little to no curves, their faces are mediocre at best, and they’re not particularly smart. <br><br>They’re older than the average age men look for in a woman, and they’ve already lived most of their prime years. They’re not good-looking, they’re not fit, they’re not smart and they’re not nice. So why and how would a “good” man consider dating them? <br><br>A good man, a fit and good-looking man in his 40s, wouldn’t be caught dead with a 28 years old single mom with 2-3 kids, who’s overweight and not particularly smart. But when a 45 years old ex-husband, who’s not in great shape, who’s not particularly good-looking and certainly not wealthy, manages to land one of these women, all of a sudden he’s a catch? <br><br>These women are not trophies, they’re not prizes to be won and they’re not status symbols. They’re low quality women who couldn’t land a decent partner when they were young and had the chance, so they settled for a low effort, low quality man when they were young, then they gained weight, lost their shape, and they’re looking for a partner to provide for them and their kids, and they have the audacity to call these men “Trophy Husbands” and label them “Couple Goals”, because “I’m sure he’s very happy to have me, a mother of 3, 29 years old and overweight, and he’s so lucky to have met me after his divorce, because I’m doing him such a massive favour by even looking at him let alone dating him, I mean, just look at how lucky he is to have found me and be able to date me, I mean I could’ve gone for someone younger and better-looking, but I chose him, so now he should feel grateful and worship me, because I’m doing him a massive favour by being with him, I mean he’s lived a full life, while I’m still young, I’m only 29, so I still have the world to see and explore, I have my whole life ahead of me, so I’ve settled for this old fat man because I feel sorry for him and I don’t want him to end up alone, but he’s still sooo lucky to have me, I mean I could’ve gone for someone else, and in 5-10 years from now I’ll still look like this, maybe a bit fatter, because I’ll have 2-3 more kids from him, but I’ll more or less look like this, you can be sure of it, because I don’t care about my appearance, and he’ll be another 5-10 years older, and he’ll probably be even more out of shape than he is now, so I’m basically doing him a huge favour and I’m giving him my youth, because I’m sacrificing my 30s to be with him, and once he’s gone, I can live my 40s and 50s as I please, but I’m willing to make the sacrifice because I love him so much, and he’s such a good man, but still, he’s a very lucky man to have landed someone like me, and I’m doing him a huge favour every day that I’m with him, because I’ve given him a second chance in life, I’ve given him a chance to live his life again, I’ve blessed him with my presence, and I’m basically his saviour, because I’ve given him another chance, I’ve given him youth, I’ve given him another chance to live life and to be happy, I’ve given him a new family, I’ve given him another chance to be a great father and a great husband, so you bet your ass this man is a very lucky man and I’m doing him a huge favour every day, because this man would not have had any other chances if it wasn’t for me, and I’m his life-saver, and he’s not worthy of me, but I’m willing to overlook that and I’m willing to give him a chance, because I’m a woman, and we’re the best the world has to offer, we’re the chosen ones, and you should be grateful that we’re allowing you to live, and you should worship us, because we’re the reason why you’re alive, you’re nothing without us, and this man is nothing without me, and I’m everything in his life, so I’m the reason why he gets up in the morning, and I’m the reason why he’s breathing, because without me, he’d be nothing but a sad, lonely fat old man with no direction in life, but I’ve given him my blessing and I’ve given him life, and I’m his saviour, so you bet your ass he’s a very lucky man with a huge grin on his face, because he’s so grateful to have landed someone like me, and I’ve given him a chance to live life again, and he’s so grateful to have me in his life, because I’m the light in his life, and I’m his guiding star, I’m the reason why he lives, and I’m the reason why he’s alive, so this man is so lucky to have landed me, I mean he’s soooo lucky, he’s the luckiest man alive because he’s landed someone like me and I’ve given him a chance to be with me, and he’s so grateful and so thankful, but he’s still not thankful enough, because he doesn’t understand how lucky he is to have me in his life, and how big of a favour I’m doing to him by even allowing him to be with me, so I’m doing him a huge favour, because I’m not even settled for someone younger and better looking than him, which I could easily do, but I’m settling for him, because I’m doing him a favour, so this man is so lucky to have me in his life, and I hope he never forgets it, because if it wasn’t for me, he’d be nothing, he’d be a sad pathetic loser with no life, and I’ve changed that by giving him light and guiding him through life, and I’ve given him the chance to live life again, and I’ve given him the chance to experience life from another perspective, because I’m the reason why he gets up in the morning, and I’m the reason why he lives his life now, and I’m the reason why he’s still alive, because without me, he’d have probably taken his life by now, because he was living such a sad and pathetic life, but I’ve changed that, and I’ve given him light at the end of the tunnel, and I’ve given him a chance to life again, and I’ve given him a reason to be alive, and I’m the reason why he’s living, so this man is so lucky to have landed someone like me, and I’m doing him such a huge favour, and he’s so lucky to be alive because of me, because I’ve given him life with my presence, and I’ve given him a reason to be alive, and he wouldn’t have lasted another month without me, so he’s very lucky to have landed me, and I’m doing him a huge favour, I mean HUGE, I mean, you have no idea how huge of a favour I’m doing to him by allowing him to be with me, because I’m doing him a HUGE favour, I mean, you have no idea, I mean, I’m literally doing him the biggest favour ever, I mean, you can’t even imagine how big of a favour I’m doing to him, I mean, you have no idea, I mean HUGE, and he’s very lucky to have me, and he’s not worthy of me, not even close.”<br><br><br>So no, gents, you’re not “Trophy Husbands”, and your new partners aren’t “Trophies”, they’re not good-looking, they’re not hot, they’re not funny, they’re not smart and they’re not interesting, they’re fat, they’re ugly, they’re stupid and they’re low quality, so I’d stop calling you “Trophy Husband” and I’d stop calling them “Trophies” because they’re not, they’re the exact opposite, so stop settling for mediocrity, because this is you settling for a low effort woman who’s not even trying to look good for you, because she’s correlated her self-worth to the fact that you’re an old man who dates a younger woman, so she believes she’s done you a huge favour by even looking at you and honour you with her presence, so she’s zero effort, she’s zero loyalty, and she’s zero quality.