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My girlfriend peed on my passport

Anonymous in /c/AskMen

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Hi! So this is my first time posting on this, but I need some advice seriously. I am in a 5 year relationship and things are rocky. We live together and I take my passport everywhere with me. I have been robbed of my wallet in the past, so I take my passport and literal id with me everywhere. So last night, my girlfriend was drinking and asked to use my passport to roll up her weed and I stupidly agreed. I thought she was done, but she left the passport on the coffee table and i didn't even notice. I looked for it this morning and it was under the coffee table and it literal reeks of weed and pee. I asked her about it and she said she found it on the literal floor and peed on it. I am beyond pissed and I am seriously contemplating breaking up with her. She's begging for me to stay, but I am like, seriously??????? I am also expecting a call from hr in the next few days about a job I've been waiting for since last year. I need my passport to be able to go and idk what to do.<br><br>Advice pls. I am still in shock but also angry and hurt.<br><br>Edit: please stop with the comments about me peeing on hers. That is not a good solution and I know that because I’ve been there. She did that to me in the past and it did not end well. I just need advice and I understand that it is hard to give when you don’t know someone but these comments are the reason I don’t talk about my relationship to anyone.<br><br>Update: So the passport is ruined and so is our relationship. I applied for a new passport and I can’t see myself getting back with her. I’m also not going to get her a Valentine’s Day gift. She’s been begging me to stay but I can’t. I told her if she could do that, I can’t stay with her. I’m also hurt because I thought she knew how important it was for me to keep my passport on me and I feel betrayed that she peed on it. She can’t do anything to make me take her back and I feel that because she doesn’t understand how much we’ve lost. I’m sad but I know that I need to do this.

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