My grandmother is a piece of shit.

I never knew my dad, but when I was 9 years old my grandmothers husband got sick and died. Before he was gone he got in touch with my mom and set up a meeting with my dad. My dad is my dads name and his number.<br><br>Fast forward a few months and my dad and I are talking on the phone. He wanted to meet me and my mom and brother. Soon after we met my dads parents. The only people in our family I've ever felt comfortable with or wanted to spend time with. My dad and I have nothing in common and I found him slimy and arrogant. My relatives on my moms side are cruel and treat me like I'm worthless. My relatives on my dads side are kind and treated me like family.<br><br>My grandmother never forgave my dad for leaving because she felt like it ruined her reputation and embarrassed her.<br><br>Last night I got a call from her and she was crying. She has prostate cancer and is in a lot of pain and she wants me to move in and take care of her. She told me that she knows my dad and his family will take care of me, and that my dad is responsible for her being alone. My dad abandoned her. She ugly cried on the phone because she’s not the victim.<br><br>I don’t know what to do. If I move in I know my dad and his family will take care of all my bills for school and living expenses, and I like having their company but I’m so angry and hurt I don’t want to.<br><br>I’ve been in the middle of my dads family feuds for years, constantly being guilted and manipulated and I resent them all for it. But I can’t help but feel grateful for them because I know they’ll take care of me. I know I’m not the victim and I can’t be swayed by my grandmothers lies.<br><br>For the last 10 years they’ve been trying to buy me, and I resent them for it. They have no right to try to buy me. I resent them all.<br><br><br>EDIT: I am not my grandmother’s caretaker. I’m not moving in. I’m not taking care of her. This is not my responsibility. I have a life and once I graduate in the spring I’m moving out of state. I never planned on checking in with them again.<br><br>I just feel like my dads family are the only people who’s ever cared for me. But they don’t want a relationship with me, they want to use me and manipulate me. So now I’m resentful of both my dads family and my moms family. Both have used me my whole life and now I’m being strongly guilted and manipulated by both.