I accidentally cancelled my partner and it became a huge mess
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To be short, few days ago I and my partner 30/m went shopping. I spotted a shirt I liked and my partner suddenly said that I can’t buy it and I will never be able to pull it off and I will look ridiculous in it. I’m a pretty insecure person and I started to cry a little bit. He told me that it’s all my fault that he said that and I should not wear stuff I can’t pull off. We are together for 2 years and he was never mean to me about stuff like that. I’m 5’2 and pretty petite, small build but I’m not skinny.<br><br>Next day he was very very quiet and not talking to me and I asked what was going on and he started yelling at me and said that I was mean to him and that I hurt him and I was not myself when we fought. I said I’m sorry but he didn’t want to hear it and left the house to his parents.<br><br>Today I got a call from his mother and she was very very angry at me and told me I’m a very mean person and I hurt her son very much and I’m a very shallow person who likes to hurt other people.<br><br>Now my partner is not answering any of my calls and messages and I don’t know what to do. What should I do?<br><br>Edit: he’s my ex now and we broke up. He came to my house and he told me that he’s leaving me because I’m a mean shallow person who likes to hurt him. I told him that I’m sorry for what happened and I never meant to hurt him but he didn’t want to hear it and left. Now I’m very sad and hurt from what he said to me when he left. He said to me that I’m a small shallow person who like to hurt other people and I’m self centered and a narcissist and I hurt him a lot and that’s why he’s leaving me.<br><br>Edit: It’s been more than a week since we broke up and he still didn’t come for his stuff. Me and my sister had to move all his stuff to his parents house and his mother and father are very angry at me but I don’t care. My sister moved in with me and she’s been very patient and supportive and she stayed up with me all night to talk about what happened and consol me.
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