This sub is about men going their own way, not men hating women

I think it's about time that someone said it. We're called misandrists when we complain about the toxic behaviour of men, and many of us on this sub call women femoids, so we can't point fingers. It's pathetic. We should be ashamed of ourselves. Both men and women are often problematic, but you'll get more shit from people in general if you complain about men than if you complain about women. But that's not the point. The point is that we've let our negativity get the best of us and have resorted to making what amounts to veiled threats and creating a toxic atmosphere that's even worse than what many of us claim to be escaping.<br><br>If you want to be better than the people who wronged you, you sure as hell have a long way to go. Many of you are just as bad, if not worse, than the people you want to escape from. On average, you're not even breaking even when it comes to creating a positive environment for others. You're often just as intolerable as the people you want to leave behind, and you think you can create a better society when you can't even create a better community? Get off your high horse. Don't pretend like you're better just because you haven't abused or taken advantage of a woman (or anyone else in general). You've done nothing to help anyone, and have only made the world a more divisive place.<br><br>I'm not saying we should all hold hands and be a happy family. I'm saying that what many of you are doing is not going to solve anything, and only makes you look like an ass. If you truly want to create a better environment, you need to do better. The road to creating a better community starts with not being a prick, and many of you here have not taken a single step down that road.