Why do women act like they have the ability to do everything men can do?

So I was on a stream, talking to some woman, some dude made a comment, "im gonna start training to be a baker", the woman replied, "i was thinking of doing that too, but then i thought i wanna do something more important", and i said, "thats the whole thing it isnt about what a man decides to do". she said, "technically for me or anyone else it is, people are people", i said, "people arent people though, we're men and women, it makes a big difference, women have a biological advantage, that even transgender women dont have, women have the option of raising children, which is valuable and important and the only reason even humans exist today, whereas men need to work and be productive in order to breed". she denied everything i said and said that women arent better than men in producing offspring, i corrected her and told her that, it is a fact that both women and men produce offspring, but that it is not equally as important, a woman can just leave her child in daycare and go work, and society will be forgiving to her, whereas if a man fails to provide for his children society will hold him as a failure, she actually said, "men have it easier than us, its harder to be a mother than it is a father" even though women get child support, and benefits whereas single fathers get nothing whatsoever. she started speaking to me like i was an idiot and raising her voice because i was telling her, that its not true, and that the jobs men do arent the same as jobs women do, because men are doing the dangerous jobs and behind the scenes jobs while women are doing the jobs that give them power, such as CEO, doctor, teacher, nurse, social worker, etc... considering men are 2x more likely to be victim to homicide, and 80% of workplace related deaths are men, and 75% of all jobs in the military are men, and the majority of medical professionals in surgery and frontline are male too.<br><br>edit: i should also add that the woman that i was talking to was working in a role, that required her to go behind a desk once in a while to do some papers, whereas the men in her line of work were on the actual construction site doing the heavy work