I’m a hot girl who's been dating a chubby guy and honestly I love him

I’m writing this because I’ve been doing a lot of research on what a guy might like or enjoy in a relationship and a lot of the stuff I read makes me feel extremely bad. A lot of guys say that they would never get fat or allow their gfs to get fat because it's unattractive, is a sign of laziness, and is dangerous for their health. And it’s not the judgment or criticism that I have a problem with, it’s how a lot of men online are saying that it’s okay to let a gf/wife know that she's getting fat and is unattractive and that it’s wrong to "baby" a girl and talk her up especially if the relationship is new and you don’t know them all that well. <br><br>It’s just a lot of shaming, a lot of negativity, a lot of “I would never let her get this big”. I don’t have a problem with a person's preference and what they like and what they don’t like in a relationship. It’s just the judegement and how many men think it’s okay to shame people for being chubby, even if they're not fat. It’s just the way people talk about weight. It’s just extremely negative.