I discovered my american wife has been lying to me and using me for years to get into the US.

My(28m) ex wife (we are now divorced 26 f) is from South America. We met while I was on vacation in SA. I spent 6 months a year for 2 years (while still on vacation) with her. She came to the US and lived with me. We got married. Then a year after she got her green card she left me for another man she said she loved more. <br><br>She was cold and didn't make eye contact with anyone. It's like she had no warmth or emotion. I wanted to help her as I had this feeling she needed to be held. Anyway she wanted to live in the US so we did it. Then after she got her green card, she left me. I knew I was stupid. I got her everything. She was a sugarbaby. I bought her a car. Phone, jewelry. Granted she deserved it because of her beauty. <br><br>My point is she asked me to marry her. I thought wow I finally proved how much I actually liked her and that I was so happy to make such a big commitment. That was about 3 years ago. I never suspected she was lying to me. I thought she was being genuine. So after she left I wanted to get to the bottom of this. I hired a private investigator. I just got the results today and it turns out she asked everyone to marry her the last 5 years while each relationship lasted. I was her 3rd husband. <br><br>I feel so stupid. I thought she loved me. I thought I had a real relationship with her. I feel like a fool. She used me. She used everyone and I was too blind to see. I tried to make her happy but my point is that she didn't love me but wanted me only for the green card. I'm stunned right now. I feel lost. I'm not sure what to do now. I never would have known if I didn't take action. I'm devastated and I'm planning to move out of the US so I don't have to deal with all these scammers. <br><br>Please be careful out there and always double check. I thought I was just being paranoid. Now I know why 'love' can be reversed to 'evil'.