How much sex do you really want?

I am a 40 something married male with a wonderful wife. We had lots of sex in the beginning of our relationship (20+ years ago). Over time it slowed as expected and that is fine. I would prefer more than how often we have it now, but the amount of sex we have now is absolutely enough for me to be content.<br><br>I have been reading articles and studies in the media because of the lights that my wife and daughters have been lighting up in it about how women want significantly more sex than men. And I call BS on it. I really don't think that women really want more. I think the media is just pushing this narrative to try to destroy the nuclear family. I don't think that my wife or my daughters would want to have more sex with me than I do with them.<br><br>Edit: Thank you everyone for all the feedback. A lot of the feedback is exactly what I thought, which is that there is less sex because it is not enjoyable. There were a lot of comments suggesting that I should ask my wife. The main reason that I posted this is that I have asked my wife as recently as a month ago during a PDA session when her answer was "I'd rather cuddle than have sex".<br><br>Edit 2: I am not really any closer to figuring out the media narrative of women wanting more s3x than men, but I have gotten a lot of feedback on how to improve my s3x life. I have been married for over 20 years, so it is really hard to change my wife's mind about me for some of the things that you have suggested.<br><br>&#x200B;