I'm so done with the fetishization of alcoholism

I've been hearing about this "no age" thing and how it's just a drink that has amazing benefits and taste. I looked it up, it's 30% alcohol and 97 calories per serving. There's a youtube video of a woman who uses it to show it has 220 calories per serving. The bottle says 5 servings per bottle. I just don't understand how people drink so much and still talk about it like it's healthy. I drink strategically, it's not something that I want to do in my life, especially as a young woman. It can lead to unprecedented levels of breast cancer. I know a guy who drinks 3 bottles of rum a day. Most people I know drink everyday and I'm just so confused by it. I was born with alcohol intolerance and I'm just tired of hearing about how great it is all the time.