Me & my Wife’s son got caught

I’m a 30 year old man and I’ve been married to a 31 y/o woman for five years. I know this is going to get downvoted and people are gonna say all sorts of cruel things, but I’m gonna say it anyway.<br><br>I love my wife very much and I love her children even more so. Her son is 19, and her daughter is 20. We’ve never gotten close to her children because they were very cold towards us. I’ve always had a crush on her daughter, and my wife knows that I do. She’s said that it’s okay as long as I don’t act on it. But then my wife got close to my brother. They are both 32 but my brother is more attractive than I am and he’s more fun to be with. They started an affair. I was hurt and angry, but they kept saying I had no right to be mad. They said I didn’t even like my wife, that I only liked her son and daughter. But I was mad because they kept doing it in front of me, and I’d come home to find them having sex. I didn’t know what to do because I felt like I was being replaced. I was jealous. <br><br>One day I saw my brother and sister in law having sex on the couch. When they saw me they didn’t even stop. They kept going, and they even mocked me for not being able to do anything about it. I was going to go talk to my wife but instead I went to my step daugher’s room. I confessed to her that i was upset about the situation and I wanted to get back at them. She told me she understood and she was already upset because she didn’t like my brother. She said we could have sex to get back at them and her mother and brother. We were both being selfish but when we were done she started crying. She apologized and said she didn’t know how she was going to face her mom and brother. She said she wanted to break up with me and I agreed. It was a dumb thing to do but I was stressed and upset and she was upset and stressed too. <br><br>My wife and brother stopped their affair when they found out what we did. They were so angry and they told us we were disgusting and sick. I apologised to them and promised it would never happen again. My wife forgave me but my brother didn’t. We are distant now and my wife doesn’t talk to him either. But I was still attracted to my step daughter. We still had sex but we were more cautious now. One day we got careless and her brother caught us. He was very angry and he told us he hated us. He said he would never forgive us for what we did and he didn’t consider us his family. He moved out and we haven’t seen him in a year. <br><br>My wife is mad at me but she’s still with me. I think a part of her feels guilty for her affair with my brother but she’s never admitted it. My step daughter and I are still together too. We were going to break up but we still had strong feelings for each other. My wife even said it was okay as long as we were careful. But last week my step daughter wanted to try something new. She wanted to have a threesome with her, me, and my brother. She said it was a fantasy of hers and it would be fun. I said it was a crazy idea and I didn’t think my brother would want to do it. She said it didn’t matter what he wanted. She said she would do whatever it took to get him to do it. <br><br>Then she told me she didn’t care if it hurt my brother but she was going to make him do it. She said she would force him if she had to. I said she couldn’t do that and she shouldn’t want to hurt her brother. But she said it was none of my business. She told me to get my brother here or else. I didn’t know what to do because I didn’t want to lose her. So I tried to get my brother to come over. He didn’t want to but I kept begging him. He finally agreed and when he came over I told him what she wanted to do. He was disgusted and he called her sick. He left and didn’t come back. <br><br>So I told my step daughter that my brother said no. She was mad and she yelled at me. She said I didn’t even try to convince him. She said I didn’t care about her or what she wanted. I said I did care about her and I tried to convince him. But she didn’t believe me and she told me to leave. I left and I haven’t seen her since. She won’t answer my calls or my messages. I miss her and I don’t know what to do. I want her back and I want my brother back too. But I feel like they both hate me now.