Is there still some Western countries left where chivalry is alive?

I live in the UK and I've been asking girls out for a long time but they refuse to go out with a guy who asks them out. Now a lot of them are saying "I'm not looking for a relationship but I'm down to fuck" and "I'm just looking for some casual fun". How can "feminism" go from "guys are disgusting for viewing us as sex objects" to "I don't want a relationship but I want to fuck"?