My husband is not a good man

My 3 year old daughter is a product of rape. She is an absolute delight and we are extremely proud of her and love her with our whole hearts. She is the happiest, friendliest, most curious and most loving little girl. My husband and I are married and he is my daughters step father. He was ok with raising her as his own and she calls him daddy.<br><br>My husband has threatened to send her to a group home if I ever leave him. He takes credit for her. He tells her that he is her father. He tells her that I am a bad mom. He does not want her to see her grandparents. He has a verbal meltdown any time I try to stand up for her. He has belittled me in front of her. He does not want to see pictures of her. He does not want her in the car with us. He strokes her hair and says "this is mine".<br><br>He recently told me that he wants to be the only man in the house. He has asked me to never show her a picture of her real dad.<br><br>Today he came home and started yelling at her and called her a liar and a thief. He had taken her tablet and broken it on the floor.<br><br>He recently told me that he wants her to be called Dolly from here on out.<br><br>He had a full on meltdown when I gave her a t-shirt from a friends brother. He yelled and screamed at me for hours and then he cried saying that I think I am better than him. He then told me that he wants more children with me. I already had a baby with him and she died. He said that I will be a bad mom and neglect the new baby if I was given the chance.<br><br>He threatened to divorce me and leave us homeless if I don't agree to getting my tubes tied. He has a severe fear of his daughter getting pregnant at a young age.<br><br>I have a medical condition that makes pregnancy very hard for me. I was told it would be a miracle if I got pregnant with my daughter. He knows this but it doesn't seem to matter.<br><br>I am afraid to leave him. I am afraid of what he will say. I am afraid that he will try to take my daughter from me. I am so in over my head. Please help.