Fiancé thought she "lost" her engagement ring, turns out she sold it to pay for her abortion

Let me start by saying that I'm American and I am in the military, stationed in Europe. I'm in a long term relationship with a European woman. When I got stationed here, I met her and things went well. We got engaged a little over a year ago. We've been on and off for the last few years. She's awesome and I love her to death. <br><br>We had an argument a few weeks ago, and we broke up for a little while. In that time, I was told by a friend that she went out to a bar with her friends. He said she had a lot to drink and she was all over the place, but nothing that bad. She came over to my apartment to apologize and she didn't have her engagement ring on. I asked her where it was and she said she lost it when she went out. I asked her if she went to the bar and she said yes, but only to spend time with her friends. I asked her if she hooked up with someone and she said yes. She said that she was hanging out with a mutual friend and they hooked up. I was mad but I wasn't over her. She said she still loves me and she wants to be with me. We talked it out and she got a second chance. <br><br>Except she didn't lose that ring. Over the weekend, I got a phone call from a name I didn't know. I answered it and it was a guy that bought the ring from her. He asked me if she was okay and if I knew her. I said yes, she's my ex-fiancé and I didn't know what he was talking about. He said that she came in and asked for cash for it or she would report that he stole it. He gave her the money and she left. He said that she looked like she was in bad shape. I told him that she was fine and I would talk to her. <br><br>I confronted her and she broke down. Turns out she was in a lot of debt and she needed cash fast. She sold the ring and used the money to pay off her bills. She said she was in and out of the hospital a couple times and needed to get an abortion. I was mad that she lied, but I said I appreciated her telling me the truth. <br><br>A few weeks later, we were out with her friends and she excused herself to go to the bathroom. When she did, one of her friends came over and said "Be careful". We were confused and we asked her what she meant. She repeated herself and said "Be careful, she's sick". We were still confused and asked what. She said "She's sick to do what she did". I didn't get it, but then it hit me. I asked her what she meant and she told me the whole story. <br><br>When we were broken up, my ex-fiancé went to a bar and hooked up with a random guy. She went home with him and stayed a couple nights. They had unprotected sex and she got pregnant. She said she didn't want to be a mom so she got an abortion. She said she knew she was going to be in a lot of debt from the hospital bills, so she sold the ring. <br><br>I confronted her and again, she broke down crying. I didn't know what to do, so I suggested she go to therapy. She said yes and thanked me for getting her help. I'm glad I can support her, but I don't know if I can trust her again.