I'm not a woman, but enjoy reading this sub.

Hi, I'm a 29 single mom. Me and my child's dad split up last year due to him not wanting to cope with the fact our child is non verbal autistic. He wanted the stereotypical kid that he can play football etc. With. I left him and we co parent our child but unfortunately he doesn't put in much effort with him. I coparent with my ex and am firm in being as respectful as possible and3892 it's extremely hard to cope with him being lazy and trying to do absolutely nothing for our son.<br><br>I'm so glad I left him because he's incredibly lazy. I also have to make sure I always have a full time job as I knew I'd have to be the one motivating my son and teaching him. <br><br>So far I work at a very good job, have a new boyfriend who loves and adiores my son who is absolutely amazing with him. I enjoy spending time with him and friends, and I also go to the gym quite often. It's hard but I do it. But the thing is there are so many single moms like me who absolutely don't want to try or don't want their kids at all and just want to use them to particular men for money. I've seen it in action and have heard many stories of them. <br><br>I actually wonder how many single moms are like me who go to work everyday to provide for their kids and do it all by themselves? I can easily see how a lot of you lose faith in women and aren't will to jump into any relationships with them. And trust me, I don't blame you. I think women who don't want their kids and want to use them as money are absolutely disgusting. But in my opinion, us moms who do all we can for our kids and don't sit around and cry about it and just deal with it, we are the real women.