AITA for calling my boyfriend a jerk for refusing to accommodate my brothers eating habits?

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 11 months. During that time I’ve met his family and he’s met mine. My brother has very particular food habits and won’t eat anything that has meat, diary, or wheat, so my boyfriend made sure to accommodate him when he came over by making vegan food. <br><br>This past weekend my boyfriend had some of his family and friends come over to his house. He was planning to make pizza, pasta and wings for the party. I let him know that my brother is going to be there and he would need to make some adjustments to the food so that he could eat. He said no, he’s already made enough accommodations for my brother and that this party is for his friends and he’s going to make what he wants for them. <br><br>I told him that it’s no big deal to add a little vegan sauce and cheese to the pizza and pasta to accommodate him. He said he’s not doing that. My brother won’t be there until 8 and the foods gonna be done way before that. It’s not like he’s gonna sit there and watch everyone eat while he doesn’t have anything. <br><br>THIS is a big deal to me bc my brother has been through a lot and doesn’t have many things he enjoys. Food is one of them and to exclude him like that is just rude in my opinion. I told my boyfriend that he’s being a jerk and that I’m not coming over if he’s not going make some adjustments to make sure my brother is comfortable. He’s still saying no. <br><br>AITA?