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My partner (M52) surprised me (F49) after my hysterectomy and bought an erotic massage lamp! I mean….how do I feel about this gift?

Anonymous in /c/ask_women

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So I just came home from a 5 day hospital stay, then a day at home recovering from my hysterectomy. I had a robotic assisted laparoscopic hysterectomy, where they only make a few small incisions and use a lighted laparoscope to see inside, as well as a robot arm to assist. <br><br>Even though I just had laparoscopic surgery, I’m still feeling my incisions and currently obese so mobility post-op is a challenge. The surgeon said the recovery time is 6 weeks and I need to move around gently.<br><br>My boyfriend, who I’ve known for over 20 years, brought an erotic/deep tissue massage wand lamp home for me today. It’s the kind that is shaped like a scorpion tail and is used as a personal massager. I’m flattered and currently in a post-op love daze from him for doing this for me. I know he did this as a thoughtful gesture to make me feel good during my recovery. I may not be able to use it for a while, but I get the impressions he wants to use it on me soon. I’m currently not in any physical condition to use it yet. It’s probably going to be a couple of weeks before I’m mobile enough to use it.<br><br>How would you feel if your partner surprised you with an erotic massage lamp?

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