My brother finally understands feminism and women.

My brother (28) is a normie who has a pretty balanced view of the world. He always told me that there is radical feminism that is to blame for anything bad and that most women are not feminists. He also had a pretty good relationship with women.<br><br>In recent years, I have realized that I am becoming more and more misogynistic. I realized that the reason for this hate for women is feminism, which is infecting every pore of society. I have been explaining this to him for years, but he did not want to listen. When I was in my teens, my brother was the one who protected me from our father's aggression and later helped me with girls. He taught me how to talk to them, go on dates, and behave in relationships. I have always admired him and wanted to be like him. I also had good relationships with girls and I managed to get into a good university. But over time I noticed that my views on women were changing. I realized that I couldn't stand women at all. I didn't see them as people like me, but as beings that I was forced to put up with. I started to hate all the nonsense about women that was constantly being pushed down my throat. I was forced to listen to lectures from professors in college about how women are doing worse than men, how they don't earn as much as men, how women are victims everywhere. Female students bragged about aborting their babies, about how they are independent and don't need men at all, about how they are equal to men. When they got married, they still demanded that men pay for their wedding, honeymoon, and everything else. The media shouted about how women are beating their husbands, children, and parents. There was more and more news about how women cheat, steal, and murder. Yet they were all shown as victims. Every conversation with women somehow turned into "men are guilty of everything". Women felt entitled to everything and they wanted their lives to get better and better. The fact that men were working to death for their women and families didn't matter to them. They just wanted more and more. When I realized that I was becoming more and more misogynistic, I decided to tell my brother about it.<br><br>My brother had always been in a relationship, so this was a major change for him. I decided to take the opportunity to tell him once and for all that I hate women. He listened to me calmly, but then got very defensive. It turned out that many things that happened in his past relationships were actually caused by feminism and women's behavior. Even when his girlfriend cheated on him, he had an excuse for her. He said that maybe she was naive or confused. I also told him about many things that happened to me, how I was cheated on, lied to, I had to be the one to provide for my wife, I had to help my wife because she was bad at work, I had to tolerate her fits of rage. He listened calmly to everything. I told him about the change in my attitude towards women. He still defended them saying that most women are not like that. I realized that he was still in love with the idea of women. He didn't want to believe me that women are not the kind and caring beings he thought they were. I told him that feminism is everywhere and that most women act as feminists do. No matter how many times I explained to him how women's behavior has changed over the years, he didn't want to believe me. He kept saying that anything bad that happened to him was his fault. I also told him that my ex-wife told me that I should be grateful that she married me and that I'm inferior to her because of her job. I also told him about my struggle to find a job and how I had to live with my parents for years. And how I had to tolerate my father's aggression. He also told me that it was my fault and that I didn't have enough self-confidence. I told him that I was going to live as a bachelor and I would never get married again or commit to a woman. He said that maybe I was the problem in my previous relationships. I had had enough of this conversation and snapped at him. I yelled at him that he was stupid and had no self-confidence. I told him that he was psychologically screwed up by his parents, that he was a momma's boy, a woman's boy, a stupid guy who always blamed himself for everything. He got quiet and started to cry. I didn't want him to cry and I started to comfort him. He told me that he feels guilty for everything because he thinks that he is guilty of everything that is bad that happened to him. He told me that he finally felt bad for himself after a long time. He can't stand his father's behavior anymore. He said that he can't find a job that fulfills him and he feels like he's doing nothing with his life. But he couldn't tell anyone about these feelings because he was too ashamed. He said that he had been feeling worthless for a long time. He missed his mother because at least she was more caring. He hated our father for not being a good parent. I saw that he had been holding all this inside for years, that he felt bad about himself because he couldn't get out of his miserable situation. I felt bad because I snapped at him earlier. I told him that he should be proud of himself. He had a good job, was married, and owned an apartment. I told him that I was proud of myself too, I had overcome my depression. He cried more and more. I hugged him and told him that everything would be okay and that I was there for him. I said that I will always be there for him and I will never let him fall or fail. He told me that he loves me. I said that I love him too. Later we talked all night. I told him everything that happened to me in recent years. He told me that he finally realizes how bad women are and how feminist they are. He said that he finally understands how bad the situation is and why I am so hateful towards women. He said that he could never imagine being a bachelor, but now he is not sure if that's true. He realized how much pressure men are under and how many responsibilities they have and how much women don't care about it. He said that he is finally starting to understand me and all those years he told me I was stupid. I said that I forgave him and that I will always be there for him because he is the most important person in my life. I have always admired him and I have always wanted to be like him. But now he is beginning to admire me because I am not afraid to be myself and I know how to take care of myself. I am no longer a child who can be manipulated by his parents' behavior. He told me that he finally realized that the reason I hate women is that I am a man who will not be abused. I have always been the same, but now my brother realizes how much feminism and women's behavior has changed. I told him that he can always come to me with his problems and that I will always be honest with him. I asked him if he had a problem with me being a misogynist and he said that he didn't. He said that he realized that I am not a horrible person but a normal man who fights against the bad situation that men are in today. He said that he also started to hate women and will stop excusing them. He said that he finally understood why I behave the way I do. I told him that the reason I behave that way is that I have always been the same person. I'm not the one who changed, but society and people did. I told him that he finally started to understand the world. He said that he finally realized how important it was to have a man in his life and that he was glad that I was always there for him. I told him that he is also important to me and that I will always be there for him. I told him that I want him to be happy and fulfilled. I told him that I want him to stop blaming himself for everything. He promised me that. I told him that he is not alone and that I will always be there for him. He thanked me and said that he loves me. I also said that I love him and that I will always be there for him. Later, we hugged and said that everything would be okay.<br><br>\-------------<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>He finally understands that women are feminists and that they have changed. He is starting to realize how bad the situation is and why I behave the way I do. I am proud that I was able to help him change. I finally feel like I can be myself around him. I don't have to hide how I really feel about women anymore. My brother is finally on my side and I can stop feeling ashamed about my views. I was afraid of telling him about my misogyny, but it turned out to be a great relief. I feel like I can finally be myself and I don't have to worry about him judging me anymore. I love my brother and I want him to be happy. I want him to stop blaming himself for everything and learn to love himself. I want him to realize that he is a person like everyone else and that he deserves to live a happy life. I want him to stop tolerating our father's behavior. I am glad that I was able to help him change and that I can finally be myself around him.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>Edit: I didn't expect my brother to change his behavior overnight. I just said that he finally understands that women are feminists and that they have changed for the worse. My brother may be still a normie, but I am glad that I was able to tell him the truth. I finally feel like I can be myself around him.