My (30F) boyfriend (31M) treated a waitress horribly and now I’m questioning our relationship. Help!

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years now. We are thinking about getting married in the next two years or so. Last night, we were out to dinner at a local restaurant and to make a long story short, he absolutely humiliated a waitress last night and made her cry. <br><br>She took too long to come and take our order, and he got impatient and told her “this isn’t a charity case. You’re a waitress, do your job.” Then she spilled a bit of his drink on the table which made it worse. When he got his food, he asked her if she was on drugs and called it “some of the worst service he’s ever had.”<br><br>She started crying and he told her to grow the F up and get back to work. I was mortified, but the manager did come over and it made the situation worse. I don’t know if the manager was the waitress’ mother or what the deal was, but she basically kicked us out and told my boyfriend to grow up.<br><br>I was mortified and will never go back there again. I don’t know if I can move past this. He was so unkind and humiliating towards a young girl. It was horrible and I don’t know what to do.<br><br>I don’t know if I can move past this. He was so unkind and humiliating towards a young girl. It was horrible and I don’t know what to do.<br><br>TL;DR- Boyfriend was horrible to a waitress last night and humiliated and reduced her to tears. I’m mortified and don’t know if this is a turn off that I can move past.<br><br>EDIT: <br><br>For those wondering if it was busy. It wasn’t. There was only 2 other tables being served and they were both finished with their meals. The waitress wasn’t young enough to be a high school student, it appeared she was probably in her 20s but I don’t know. <br><br>As far as the drinking goes, it was a glass of wine. Not anything crazy. He has gone to AA in the past for over drinking. <br><br>The server was definitely shaken by the experience. I don’t know if she was on drugs though, I don’t think that’s the best idea to jump to conclusions.