CMV: Female orgasm is far far far overvalued and this overvaluation is causing a lot of harm

I want to preface this by mentioning that I'm a woman, I have no shame, I masturbate. Also, I don't think I have ever really hated an orgasm. <br><br>However, I'm starting to think that they aren't necessarily good. I've had a 5 min orgasm, a 10 second orgasm, an orgasm that made me laugh, an orgasm that made me cry, an orgasm that made me angry, an orgasm that made me feel fuzzy, an orgasm that made me feel like I was murdered. I've only ever flogged to climax because sex generally doesn't give me one, but I've tried my best to have climactic sex. Climax is just so hit and miss, so what is the point of obsessed over something that is going to be hit or miss? Not to mention all the negative shit that comes from climax, like when you can't cum at all, when you cum too quickly, when you cum too late. Not to mention cunniligus, which is just such a ridiculous act that no one could possibly enjoy. Why would I spend my entire sex session focused on my clit, when I could be having a normal sex, and get some intimacy. <br><br>Make me change my mind, why is climax so important?