My (35M) wife (33F) doesn’t care that I got king sized pillows and now they don’t fit in the pillowcases she bought

I changed our pillows and got new ones. I decided to get the king size ones. I come home from work the other day and my wife is pissed that the new pillows don’t fit in the pillowcases she bought. I told her that I got king sized pillows and that’s why they don’t fit the queen ones she has. She went on and on about how she spent good money on those and was saving them for when we have our own house. I don’t know why she’s so mad. I think she spent 40 bucks on them. Why does it matter what kind of pillows we have. It makes no sense. She’s been frustrating me lately with little things like this. I wasn’t even sleeping at home most nights for the past year because I work 2nd shift and I drive 40 minutes to work. I start work at 4pm and most nights I just go straight to my parents house after work and sleep because I was bringing our 3 year old to my parents when I picked him up from daycare and he falls asleep around 9pm on the car ride. No point in driving all that way just to drive all that way again at 10pm. I think I’ve only slept at home maybe once or twice a week. <br>Give me some advice Reddit. That is all. Thanks.<br><br>Edit- just to see if she would notice I switched them back to the old pillows and she was so happy and bragging about how the king sized pillows in the queen pillowcases look so much better. I think she might be gaslighting me hard.