My husband added my best friend on Snapchat behind my back and is now sending her the same spicy pics he sends me.

I'm sorry if this is too much for this sub, it's just that I don't have anywhere else to speak about this. Not to mention that my best friend has joined the sub as well.<br><br>I (40f) found out yesterday when my best friend Rachel (41f) posted my husband's (41m) allegedly "leaked" pictures on her Instagram story.<br><br>It's a bunch of pics and vids he sends me with his erect penis in different poses, cumshots and sometimes depressing stuff like making fun of his own dick and claiming that I'm a gold digger who's cheating on him (it's a long story). I saved them in my phone because I wanted to take them to couples therapy with me to show them to our therapist because I figured they'd be relevant to my husband's mental health. It all started a couple of months ago when he had ED for a while because of his anti depressants. <br><br>This happened until he had cheated on me with one of his new coworkers. She was sending him "leaked" pics of her own and he fell for it. I told him we needed to separate and he started sending me those pics claiming that I was cheating on him and calling me a "gold digger bitch" and a "slut". I have no idea where the "gold digger" stuff comes from. I work and make my own money, in fact I make more than my husband so I really don't get why he's calling me that.<br><br>I digress. My husband made a new Snapchat account and added my friend behind my back, and essentially sent her all the pics he's been sending me. She took the screenshots of those pics from his Snapchat and posted them on her Instagram story, laughing about them and calling my husband a loser with a small dick. <br><br>I was livid when I saw that. Not only did she invaded my privacy by sharing with the world the content of my phone, but she also humiliated my husband online right in front of his son. For context, my husband's son from another relationship is 16 and he's very active on social media. <br><br>At that point, I decided to go on my Facebook and post screenshots of text messages between my husband and his mistress, with the affair details and all, right next to the screenshots of his texts with my friend where he was calling me "a whore" for no reason at all and how he's going to "expose me" because "I hurt him so much" and I "need to be taught a lesson". <br><br>My friend has now unfollowed my husband on Snapchat and blocked him. She has now posted on her Instagram story that she "exposed him because he was calling me names behind my back" and that "I [me] have no business getting mad at her for that". I unfollowed her on all social media and blocked her number. <br><br>I am so upset over this. I don't know what to do because my friend has gone and humiliated my husband online right in front of his son and I stood up for him. I need advice.