Ex-girlfriend wants me to come up for a weekend. Am I being set up for a breakup?
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We had a very casual relationship. Never too serious. Broke up a month ago after "losing that special feeling" for each other.<br><br>She recently messaged me saying she's been thinking about me a lot. A couple of days later asking if I wanted to come visit her. I asked if she knew anyone around there I could hang out with if I'm ever bored (it's a very small town), and she said she didn't know anybody "that she'd trust with me" (she's always been a bit paranoid).<br><br>I've been thinking about the possibility of her inviting me to go to her parent's house or whatever, so she can dump me in front of her family. Not because I'm doing anything wrong, but because she wants some sort of "validation" for herself. I've seen how she talks about me to her family (she talks about a relationship as though it's her entire world), and I'm sure she's going to ask me to go with her to her parent's home, just so she can make the dump easier by telling them "he was a really nice guy, and I did invite him to meet you, but he's not a good fit for me".<br><br>Am I overthinking this?
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