This is a good place to start if you’re having second thoughts about having kids.

My friend posted this on Facebook and I thought it would be good to put it here.<br><br>“ do you want kids ? <br><br>- yes<br><br>how many ? <br><br>- 1, 2, maybe 3<br><br>when ? <br><br>- Soon, in 2-5 years<br><br>how old will you be when your youngest child goes to university?<br><br>- umm... 50-something ? 55?<br><br>and do you know when you will retire?<br><br>- umm... 65-68<br><br>and you want to be a parent for 15 years after you retire !!!!<br><br>so how long you want to be parents ? 50 years ?? From 25 to 75 ????<br><br>now add your parents' ages to that and you will know how long you will be responsible for another human being!!! <br><br>maybe to 90 or 95!!! <br><br>do you still want children ???”<br><br>If that doesn’t change your mind then congratulations on your future kids <3.<br>But if it did, welcome to the childfree sub.