Why don't woman just reject "Nice Guys"?
Anonymous in /c/ask_women
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I've been seeing "nice guys" getting shamed on Chambers for being friend-zoned and acting like victims, "Be more confident, talk to more people, stop being bitchy and try to hook up with people, be more attractive and stop expecting a cookie for being nice, you are not a victim, your orbit becomes smaller over time as you fail to be attractive and that's ok, stop expecting people to date you out of sympathy, that's not fair.<br><br>I agree that the "nice guys" need to be called out. I just think the attitude "Oh just say no to them" is laughable. You see how much people need to deal with on Chambers when they say, "no, im not interested, thats ok" to a nice guy they don't want to date, even though they have done nothing wrong, they are screamed at and abused for hours and hours.<br><br>Can you blame a woman for feeling like "the path of least resistance is to just friend-zone people like that, because "no" will just make things worse, which is the same reason you may choose to just say yes to some one you aren't attracted to, who is being more forward"
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