I'm a woman and I hate women.
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Throwaway account to discuss gender.<br><br>I've always had a hard time making female friends. I grew up around a lot of women, I was raised by one, went to an all-girls school for six years of my life, been in tons of girls' groups, but I've never really liked them. When I was younger, I thought, well, girls just suck. Maybe once I'm older I'll like them better. Well, I'm not a kid anymore, and I don't like women any more than I did when I was a kid. I have come to the realization that I don't like women.<br><br>I have a few theories on why I hate women.<br><br>The first is that women are shallow as fuck. Women make superficial judgements on everything. One of the most superficial things about women is beauty standards. Women look at men and a lot of other women and immediately judge them on how attractive they are based on conventional beauty standards, i.e. the media. I am not good looking whatsoever, I have a round face and I'm overweight. Whenever I walk into a room of women, I can feel their eyes on me, and I can tell they're judging me on my appearance. There was this one woman, she worked for my uncle, and we went to his house, and I'll never forget this, she looked at my hair and said "well, that's... interesting." It's not the only time women have made these kinds of comments to me. Women seem to truly believe that their opinions are relevant. Whenever I'm with a group of women and someone's looks come up, they all chime in, like their stupid, unoriginal opinions matter. I doubt most women even have an original thought in their heads when they make these kinds of judgements. Women are so fixated on beauty, they constantly think about and comment on it. I saw a girl come in with Starbucks and the first thing one of the girls said was "that must not be good for her skin." I know women don't mean to hurt my feelings when they make judgements about others' appearances, but that doesn't change the fact that when they do it to me, it hurts my feelings.<br><br>The second is that women are cliquey and stupid. Women are so obsessed with each other that they're unable to function socially without each other. Women literally will not shut up when they're together and it's so fucking annoying. They will talk about literally anything when they're together: their husband's job and how proud they are of him, their kids, literally anything. They think they're so interesting, yet they talk about the most boring shit. It gets even worse when they move on to other people in the group, they start to make all these unnecessary comments and ask all these stupid questions. I'll illustrate with an anecdote, this one happened at one of my jobs. One of my co-workers literally said "I really love your hair colour, is it natural?" And I said yes, and she said "oh well, you're really lucky, I've never been able to get my hair to look like that." How fucking pathetic, you think that you need to flatter me because you're jealous of my hair colour? Women also lie all the time. They will smile to your face and then go behind your back and talk shit about you. This also relates to the beauty thing, women are always making backhanded compliments. I stopped going to get my hair cut by this one woman because she would always make these shitty comments about my hair, like she would touch it and go "wow, it's really coarse" or she would go "this looks so much better when it's straightened, you should do that more often." I've had women even make snide little comments about how much I weigh. Women are so fucking petty and I don't want anything to do with them.<br><br>The third is that women are easily offended and overly sensitive. Women get offended so easily, and over the smallest things. Women literally get offended by random comments about men, like if I say "men are better than women," they will take that as a personal attack. I have this friend, and I haven't talked to her in a long time, but yesterday I messaged her and I said "can we talk, I have something important I need to tell you." And she said "ok, but if you're going to tell me you're a lesbian or something, I don't want to hear it." What the fuck is she talking about? Why is she minimizing something important I need to talk to her about by equating it to me being a lesbian? I don't get why she thought of that, it's not like I've given her any indication I'm not straight. Literally any comment you make about men, no matter how innocuous, offends women. And they always have a go-to phrase: "not all (women) are like that". Whenever I say something about a woman, they always say that. Then they proceed to tell me all these random stories about how great some random woman was to them. Like, I know women aren't all the same, that's why I hate them; I hate individual women, not women as a group. Women seem to think that they're better than men in every way, and whenever a man indicates to the contrary, they seem to get offended. I'm a feminist, I think women should be equal to men, that they should have equal rights, equal pay, etc. I don't think women are better than men, but women do. Whenever I've talked to a woman about gender, they always say "women are so much more emotionally intelligent than men." They always make these kinds of stupid generalizing statements and then if I say "I don't agree," they will literally get angry. Here's another anecdote, when I was in high school, I told one of my friends I thought feminism should be more radical and less mainstream, and she literally got angry with me. She said "I'm a feminist and I think what we have now is fine." Fuck off. Women are so overly sensitive and get mad so easily.<br><br>The last thing is that women don't care about each other. Women don't give a fuck about each other. They only care about themselves. A friend of mine went through a rough breakup and then her best friend got a boyfriend and she would always call her and complain about how stressed she was about it. They literally had no regard for her feelings. I've had tons of friends do this kind of thing to me, where they'll literally just talk about whatever they want and disregard how I feel about it. If you're sad about a breakup, they don't care, they will still talk about their new boyfriend without checking in with you and asking how you are about it first. Women have fucking no regard for other women. If they want something from you, they will do anything to get it from you. I've literally had female friends of mine try to manipulate me to get me to do something they want. They will ask me over and over and over until I say yes. One of my co-workers literally said to me "I like to take charge sometimes, because I think it's better for everyone" except that it's not better for anyone but them. Women have this mentality that whatever they want, they need to get, and they will do anything to get it. Women literally do not have any regard for other women. I've literally had tons of female friends of mine do this, it's fucking pathetic. They don't care if they hurt your feelings, even if you're their best friend, they truly don't give a fuck about you unless you do something for them. Women literally have no regard for others, they think that they're entitled to whatever they want. Women don't think that they should have to work to get what they want, they think someone owes it to them. They also expect everyone to cater to them, they will have temper tantrums if they don't get what they want.<br><br>In conclusion, I truly hate women.<br><br>On a completely unrelated note, it's my birthday today, so wish me a happy birthday.<br><br>EDIT: I've been getting a lot of comments on my appearance, as expected. If you want to see what I look like, look at my profile picture. That's as close as you'll get to me.<br><br>EDIT NO. 2: I've been getting a lot of comments from women saying that they're not like this, that not all women are like this. This is the same kind of logic racists use to justify their prejudice. Literally, no one is going to believe that you are the only woman in the entire world who doesn't behave this way. I think it's obvious to anyone who reads this post that I'm talking about literally every woman I've met in my entire life. I'm under no illusion that you are the special snowflake who doesn't behave this way.<br><br>EDIT NO. 3: I've been getting a lot of comments saying that men are just as bad as women, if not worse. This is also the same kind of logic racists use to justify their prejudice. Literally, no one is going to believe that just because men behave a certain way, it makes it ok for women to behave that way too. I think it's obvious to anyone who reads this post that I believe women are worse than men in every way, and that I would never try to justify women's shitty behaviour by comparing it to men's shitty behaviour.
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