My (30F) fiancee (33M) was embarrassed of me in front of his family.
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Hello Reddit. I (30F) am getting married in 5 months to my fiance (33M). His family put us on the spot and asked if he wanted to go through practice ceremony and said no, but they went ahead with it anyway and had us both demonstrate (meaning rehearse in front of them). I don't know what happened, but I couldn't remember the vows and I started to get confused and was trying to say my vows but they weren't coming out right. He got embarrassed and said "this is why I didn't want to practice it". I was really embarrassed and tried to laugh it off and I did. But that laughter was really awkward and I had tears in my eyes. Everybody was silent and my fiancee was embarrassed. He mentioned it again, how embarrassed he was and how I "made a scene" out of nothing. He also didn't talk to me until later.<br><br>This incident happened 2 days ago and I can't seem to let it go and my fiancee is mad that I'm making a big deal about it. He is acting like nothing happened but it DID happen. I feel embarrassed to even be around him now because I feel bad, I keep replaying this moment in my head over and over. I let it go yesterday but today I told him that I feel embarrassed because he called me out and humiliated me. He said "what's your problem??? you're still going on about it??? you're making a huge deal over nothing!! I'm done talking about this!" Now he's mad at me for bringing it up and says I'm "making a scene out of nothing". He even said that I'm too sensitive and that I need help for being too sensitive when I'm not. I mean, I don't even know anymore. I just feel embarrassed and I want to be happy and move past it.<br><br>What do you guys think? Do I just move on? I can't think about anything else but this. I don't even know if I can live with a man who humiliates me in front of his family.
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