Question for men

Since we are all the same, how come women self-identifying as male are not accepted as equals? Why do people care that their birth gender is female? Shouldnt the "woman" who identifies as a man just go to therapy to accept being a woman? Why should they need surgery to change their gender if changing gender identity doesnt change the chromosome that will stay female forever?<br><br>You see men, we are all the same and women can be men too, so why is that any different? The answer is because you are sexist and you wont just accept them for who they are.