A woman I work with had a baby and I am so glad I am not her

I'm 22 and single. I currently work at a small library. One of my coworkers, Sarah, is 25 and the chief librarian. She is married to some guy and has a 9-year-old son. <br><br>In my time at this library, she had a 28-month gap between kids. Her second baby was born in April. She has just returned to work this week. <br><br>Anyway, she seemed so burned out all the time with her new baby, her older son, her husband, and her job. I would be burned out too, tbh. <br><br>Yesterday, I asked her how she is able to work with kids at home, and her response was "I don't sleep".<br><br>3 kids, a small child, a husband, and a job, and Sarah barely sleeps. <br><br>I am currently considering the possibility of not having any kids. I just don't think kids are a good fit for me for the short term. I'd rather do whatever I want for my 20s than being a mom. <br><br>I love kids, but bc I did not grow up with any siblings I feel I am not qualified to be a mom. I feel like i would be too hard and strict. I don't think it would be a good idea to have kids in an unstable economy. I have small goals I want to achieve for the next couple years, and right now I don't think I have the time for kids. <br><br>I currently have a one-bedroom studio, and I don't think I could fit a kid in my space. <br><br>I have been thinking about how I would even manage a kid outside of work? I have no idea how women do it.