Letting single mothers out of the bag

When a man marries a woman who already has a child from another man, he is being utterly selfish... but also better than the alternative<br><br>The pitfall of the woman single mother story is that they either get a loser single man and drag him into a family they already have (the man is giving up his chance for his own biological child and creating a family together, which is a poor fate for him). Or she gets lonely and tries to hook up outside of the relationship (obviously a recipe for disaster)<br><br>The best is to let these women just die alone. They deserve it. However, that comes at the cost of the child, who doesn't deserve anything and is just the victim of the mother's shit parents, shit relationship decisions, and bad judgement<br><br>But what comes after this?<br><br>A child having to live with their single mother's boyfriends. It's a classic, and we know it's not good for the child, because the only reason the stepdad is there is because he can't get a real partner, so he's either a loser, or a creep, or a pure psychopath. What's to stop the boyfriend and the mother from getting too close to the child? The normal protective mechanisms don't exist in a single mother household<br><br>And what to do with this information?<br><br>By pitiful societal standards, we should have sympathy for single mothers. What we should actually have is disdain and anger towards their slobby, irresponsible, and selfish decision making.