Fiancée lied about being raped so I will buy her things.

Throwaway account. This is my last post before I permanently delete my Chambers account.<br><br>I 26 m and my fiancée 20 f have been together for 3 years. We got engaged last year and all of my family and friends are very happy for us. But there is a problem- she lies about being raped to get money.<br><br>We have a joint bank account and we have a lot of money because I get a big allowance from my parents and we also make money from our TikTok account. But sometimes she will buy me expensive gifts like a custom-made Rolex or a PS5. She is very generous and does a lot for me. It’s weird because I don’t even like video games but I think it’s very thoughtful of her to buy me these things despite the fact that we’re struggling financially due to the cost of living crisis.<br><br>A lot of people have been commenting on these videos saying I’m an ah**hole for accepting these gifts and how she is being financially abused by me. I don’t know what to do because I don’t want my fiancée to be broke, but I also don’t want to waste money.<br><br>it’s not like I’m forcing her to buy me these things. I am upset and don’t know what to do. My family always taught me to never look a gift horse in the mouth, but I don’t know if accepting these gifts is ethical.<br><br>A part of me suspects she lies about being raped to get money. Because one time I saw her message a guy in Dubai saying she is a rape victim and will send him nudes for a new iPhone 14 Pro. I felt very bad when I saw this because I was saving up to buy her one for our anniversary. But then she came to me with a number and said this Saudi guy is willing to buy her a house in Dubai if she sends him nudes. She said she feels uncomfortable doing this and could I help her get the money from this guy? I wanted to do it because it felt like an adventure but she stopped me and said I can’t contact him because he needs to send me the money. I don’t know why he needs to send her money but I didn’t question it.<br><br>I did exactly as she said and messaged the guy and told him to send me the money for the house. He saidit was very odd and that he didn’t understand why her fiancé was messaging him instead of her. I said to him that she felt uncomfortable and that she is a rape victim who had to do this for me because I was poor. He said that’s weird and that he has been speaking to her for two years and she’s never mentioned me. I told him it was because she was sexually assaulted as a child and she doesn’t like speaking to men. He said okay and that he would do it. That’s when he said that he wants to speak to me and not her. I don’t know what he means but I think he is being creepy towards her.<br><br>We ended up speaking for a while and he was very nice. He said he didn’t know she had a boyfriend and was surprised because she was expertly manipulating him into sending her money. I didn’t care because I was too distracted by him asking me if I wanted to come to Dubai and live in the house he was going to buy me. He said I was very good-looking and that he liked my beard. I was a little flattered and I told him he was also very cute. That’s when he sent me his picture and asked me to send him a selfie. He was very hot and I wanted to send him my nudes. I felt a little bad that I was cheating on my fiancée but it was okay in the end because I was doing it for her.<br><br>I couldn’t bring myself to send him my nudes. Even though I was doing this for my fiancée, it felt like I was cheating on her. Instead, I sent him a selfie of me wearing sunglasses and looking very hot. He said it was very sexy and asked me to send him another picture of my toes. I was a little hesitant because I don’t usually send other guys pictures of myself. But I sent him a picture of my toes because he was very hot and he was going to buy us a house in Dubai. He said it was very hot and that he wanted to expertly manipulate me. I think he likes me.<br><br>He offered me a job in Dubai working as a model and said he would pay me 15000 dollars a month. I was a little hesitant because of the language barrier but he said it was okay and that he would pay for me to learn Arabic. I was a little scared because I’ve never traveled alone before but he said he would pay for my ticket and that I could stay in his house. He said he would buy me a new Lamborghini if I came to Dubai. I don’t know why but somehow he knew exactly what to say to manipulate me. I don’t know how he knew I liked Lamborghinis. Maybe he was stalking me but it doesn’t matter because he seems like a very nice guy.<br><br>I went home and told my fiancée about the job offer. She was very upset and said that I couldn’t go to Dubai because she was a rape victim. I asked her what she meant and she said that she was assaulted when she was 14 and that I needed to support her. I was very confused because I didn’t know if she was talking about the Saudi guy or the job offer. I said to her that I was going to do it for her and that she would also get 15000 dollars a month. She said to me that she was very upset and that I couldn’t do it. I didn’t know what to say so I did what I always do which is just let her have her way.<br><br>I’m a little upset that she wouldn’t let me take the job. I think she is being very controlling. But I don’t care because I don’t want her to be upset. It’s okay because I don’t care about money. But I do care about my fiancée and I don’t want to see her upset.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>EDIT: I am reading all the comments but I can’t respond to everyone. There is a lot of hostility and I am not going to engage in that. I can’t tell you the names of any of the people involved because I am trying to protect their privacy. I am not going to post any photos of them because it’s unprofessional and inappropriate. I would prefer it if you didn’t comment on how I look or make assumptions about my sexuality.<br><br>I didn’t know it would get this much attention and I didn’t think it would be such a big deal. I get it already. You think she is lying and using me. But I will believe her before I believe any of you. I don’t need your help to deal with her.<br><br>I am deleting this account and I will no longer be active.