CMV: Fat men are ugly and fat women are cute
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I've been browsing this chamber and felt like this topic should be in a discussion. A lot of people have been bragging about their ugly sticks so I felt like I needed to share some truth. I've been told a lot by my dude friends that " skinny men aren't looking good " or " chubby men are cute" and I really couldn't take such nonsense seriously.<br><br>The truth is that women don't like fat men at all and they will never see them as attractive. they won't even find skinny guys ugly. Any woman will find a fat guy repulsive. This is how sex and attraction work in the first place. The ugly truth is that all women are attracted to fit men and not skinny or fat men. <br><br>There's a huge difference between skinny men and fit men. I know that a lot of guys are skinny due to genetics and I've been feeling sorry for them after seeing how a lot of women started comparing their bodies to fit men like David Gandy and Scott eastwood which just adds fuel to the fire. I know a lot of people who are skinny due to their genetics and I felt bad for them. I've been seeing a lot of skinny guys posting shirtless selfies on tiktok as if they're topless gods and a lot of them don't even get 1k likes. I've been feeling bad for them because I know they're lying to themselves and making a big deal out of something that's not attractive to women. I'm sure they're still going to get some support from some gorgeous and hot women who think they're cute and I'll talk about that later. These guys are celebrating being skinny as if they're David Beckham or something. Sometimes to combat my depression I go to the gym and it was sad seeing how a lot of women were flirting with the buff guys while they're completely ignoring the guys with beer guts or skinny guys.<br><br>Now onto the topic. If you're fat, you're ugly. Your ugly gut will make you look like a pregnant woman and you won't ever get sex unless you buy it or your partner has some fetish for fat men. I know it hurts but this is the reality. You will never be attractive to anyone. You won't be able to get a date unless you buy your partner or get with someone who's equally ugly or fatter than you. Women will never be attracted to you because you're fat. <br><br>Now regarding the claim that women are more lenient towards fat men than they are towards skinny men I can confidently say that this is a lie. Skinny men are good-looking while fat guys are unattractive. Women don't like fat men because they're fat while women don't like skinny guys because they're not hot and not because they're skinny. Skinny men are good-looking and a lot of them are attractive. They're just not hot and that's the problem. I know a lot of guys who are naturally skinny with some muscle like a swimmer's body and they're attractive and women are head over heels for the type of guys. <br><br>Talking about the claim that women are more lenient towards fat men than they are towards skinny men, I've found out that a lot of people are comparing the wrong things. They compare super skinny men who are almost anorexic to average chubby guys and because they're skinny people start calling them ugly. This is a flawed argument. A lot of skinny guys put in the effort to be attractive while a lot of chubby men don't even do anything to lose weight or get in shape. When people compare skinny men to chubby men they're comparing anorexic men to chubby guys with some muscle and because the skinny guy is skinny they call him ugly while they call the chubby guy with some muscle cute. They always compare anorexic skinny to guys who are chubby but have some muscle and a small amount of fat. People who compare skinny men to chubby men are flawed. I'm not saying that every guy should be fit like a Greek god but at least put some effort to be attractive. <br><br>Women don't find skinny guys ugly, they just don't find them attractive. I know that there are some women who are attracted to skinny guys but the majority don't find them hot and it's not because they're ugly, it's because they're not hot.<br><br>The thing is that being overweight is unattractive while being skinny is not unattractive. It's just not hot. The whole " skinny men are ugly " thing is a lie. I've never seen a skinny guy that I found ugly while I found a lot of chubby guys repulsive. The reason why women don't like skinny men is that they're not hot, good-looking yes but not hot. I know that a lot of " traditionally attractive" men are skinny and women don't find them unattractive, they just don't find them hot.<br><br>Skinny guys still look way better than chubby guys. I know a lot of skinny guys who are attractive but not hot. being skinny is not a bad thing at all it's just not attractive. I've never found a skinny guy unattractive before. I know that a lot of traditionally attractive and good-looking guys are skinny and women don't find them unattractive just not hot. I know that a lot of hot guys are skinny but what a lot of people don't understand is that attraction is different from good looks. Sometimes attraction is based on personality like when a woman is attracted to a bad boy with some muscle and sometimes it's based on good looks. <br><br>The problem is that a lot of chubby guys think they're attractive just because they're not skinny. I've seen a lot of guys who are overweight celebrating their body type as if they're hot. I know that a lot of women prefer traditionally attractive men over hot men but that's another topic. I know that a lot of women prefer traditionally attractive men and they even find some of them hot but a lot of women don't find skinny guys hot. I know a lot of skinny guys who are traditionally attractive and a lot of women don't find them hot, they just find them good-looking. <br><br>I was 115 pounds and a lot of my female friends were head over heels for me and a lot of them found me traditionally attractive. I'm not saying that all skinny men are traditionally attractive and that's another topic. <br><br>The difference between the two is that attraction is something you can't control while good looks are somewhat something you can control. I know that a lot of guys are not traditionally attractive and that's okay but what they can do is to at least put in the effort to be hot. <br><br>Now regarding the topic, I know that there are some women who are attracted to chubby and skinny men and you'll still get support from some hot and gorgeous women. I know that a lot of skinny and chubby guys are in relationships with hot and attractive women. I'm not saying that all women like fit men but the majority of them do. I know that there are some women who are attracted to skinny or chubby men but a lot of them don't. <br><br>To prove my point I made a post on tiktok with a picture of a skinny guy vs a chubby guy and I asked the viewers to choose which one is more attractive and it was 70% that the skinny guy is more attractive and 30% that the chubby guy is more attractive. I know it's not the most trustworthy source but it's enough to prove that a lot of women don't like chubby men.<br><br>On the other hand, a lot of women find fat women attractive and some of them even find them hot. I know that a lot of women don't find fat women attractive or hot but the majority do. I know that there's a huge difference between attraction and good looks. <br><br>A lot of women find fat women good-looking and attractive but not hot. I know that a lot of women don't find fat women hot but a lot of them do. I'll use myself as an example, I was 115 pounds which is underweight and a lot of my female friends who are models and they're attractive found me hot while they wouldn't even look at a chubby guy. <br><br>The double standard that women have towards men's bodies and women's bodies is atrocious. I know that a lot of women celebrate women's bodies while they criticize men's bodies. I know that a lot of men do the same thing and I'm not excusing that. I know that a lot of men celebrate men's bodies and criticize women's bodies. I know that attraction is different from good looks and a lot of women find traditionally attractive women hot regardless of their weight while a lot of them don't find skinny men hot regardless of their good looks.<br><br>I know that a lot of women find fat women attractive and a lot of them find them hot. I know that attraction is different from good looks and a lot of women find fat women hot because they're traditional and they're good-looking. I know that a lot of women don't find fat women hot but a lot of them do. I know that a lot of women find a lot of things hot that a lot of people don't find hot and that's okay.<br><br>tl;dr: women find fit men attractive and they're not attracted to chubby or skinny men.
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