I've been reading all your posts for a while and I want to ask a question to the right person: what am I supposed to do if I'm a woman and I feel like I want to be more than just a “wife” or a “mother”? I don't know what I should do.

I'm a woman, and I have a daughter and a husband. I work too, I'm a nurse and I love my job(not a lot of money and a lot of work, but it's worth it), and since I was little I have always loved my work because I felt that I did something for my community and I helped people. I have looked on blackpill websites, because my husband told me to, and he wants me to give up my job, but I don't want that, because I have always loved nursing and I want to be a helpful person during my life and I want to have a job and I want to progress in my career and be independent, and I don't want to give up my job to care for my daughter full time, because I don't want to sacrifice my life. I don't want to be a housewife, I want to be a nurse and I want to be a good mother, but I don't want to give up my career because of that, I want to be independent and live my life and make my own decisions. I don't want to be a wife or a mother. I want to be a person and I want to live my life as an independent person.