The guy I’m dating asked me to let him delete his Instagram and Snapchat to have me feel safe in the relationship
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Yesterday the guy I’m dating (let’s just call him A) and I were hanging out at the park and going for a walk. We talked about a lot of things. We talked about our insecurities and fears. I have this major fear of infidelity happening to me because in every relationship I’ve ever had, there’s always been infidelity involved. I don’t know if it’s bad luck or that there’s something wrong with me, idk. But A could tell I was really worried that he would eventually cheat on me and that I would never be able to trust anyone. So he took the initiative and asked if it would make me more comfortable in the relationship if he shuts down his Snapchat and Instagram. He said he doesn’t even use it besides to post his own stuff, but he understands that I would feel more comfortable dating him without social media. It’d make me feel like there’s no chance of him meeting up with other girls. He had no problems with doing it and was actually excited to delete it.<br><br>I feel bad because I know it’s not his fault that I have trust issues. He’s literally done nothing but be sweet to me and show me how much he cared by doing that. It made me feel protected and safe. I’m just hoping he’s being genuine and not just doing it to make me feel safe and he’s going to go behind my back to keep using his socials
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