My girlfriend (24f) is lying about how much she's been drinking and I (30m) don't know what to do
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My girlfriend and I have been together for about 3 months now... everything is going well, we have a great time together, she's very interesting, we have a lot of fun together. In fact, she is everything I have always wanted in a girlfriend. <!--more--><br><br>Somehow I noticed that she always had a bottle of wine in the fridge, and I asked her which one was her favorite, and she said that she likes white wine. I was curious about this, so I bought her 2 bottles of white wine. She was very happy about it, but I couldn't help but notice that she drank the bottle very quickly. So I asked her how much she drank in a week, and she said that she drank a bottle of wine a week. That seemed a lot to me, so I asked her if she was an alcoholic or something, and she said that she wasn't. I was curious about this, so I started keeping track of how much she drank, and it turned out to be a lot more than she said.<br><br>She would drink a whole bottle in a day and sometimes she would even get very drunk after a night out with her friends. The last time, she drank the whole bottle in one sitting, and the next day she still had a strong smell of alcohol on her breath. I felt that she was lying about how much she drank, so I decided to investigate further.<br><br>I did some research online and found that a woman should not drink more than 5 drinks per day. I also read that if she drank more than that, it could lead to serious health problems. I felt that she was lying about how much she drank, so I decided to investigate further.<br><br>I decided to investigate further, so I started keeping track of all the empty bottles and cans in her house. That's when I found out that she actually drinks a lot more than she told me. In fact, some nights she drinks 10 to 15 drinks per day. It turned out that she was lying about how much she drank the whole time and I felt betrayed.<br><br>I was shocked and felt betrayed that she was lying to me... so I confronted her. She admitted that she drinks a lot, but that she has it under control. I was shocked that she said she had it under control, when in reality she was drinking a lot of alcohol every night. I felt that she was lying and I didn't know what to do.<br><br>I decided to investigate further, so I did some research online... that's when I found out that she actually has a drinking problem. I realized that she was lying to me about how much she drank and I didn't know what to do. I felt betrayed and I thought about breaking up with her. But at the same time I didn't want to end things because I really like her.<br><br>I was confused, so I asked my friends for advice. They told me that I should break up with her because she was lying to me. I decided to do that, but then I started thinking about how much fun we have together. I didn't want to end things, so I decided to talk to her instead.<br><br>I sat her down and told her that I was worried about her drinking. I told her that I really liked her and I didn't want to end things, but that I was worried about her drinking. She got mad at me and said that I had no right to talk to her about that. She also said that I was controlling and that I had no right to tell her how to live her life. I was shocked that she said that and I didn't know how to react.<br><br>I felt bad, so I apologized. She seemed to calm down and said that she would try to control her drinking. But... that was just a lie. She still drinks a lot and sometimes she gets very drunk after a night out with her friends. I don't know what to do because I love her and I don't want to end things. But at the same time I'm worried about her drinking.<br><br>I don't know what to do.
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