A friend of an ex came on to me

I was out and about and I was working at a venue. I ran into a woman I knew and an ex asked me how I was doing because I hadn’t been on social media in a while. She was a friend of mine and my exes. She was a chubbi. I came to an understanding I was looking for a chubbi and I’ve been trying to make good choices for myself and not go for the bare minimum. I just went to kiko because I was lonely. She was nice but I don’t think I was the best match for her. She is a chubbi as well. We’ve been talking for a little over a month and we haven’t met up yet. I’ve been busy but I’m seeing her this weekend. I’m not sure what to expect and I’m a little nervous but she has been nothing but nice to me. I’m a little confused about her intentions but I’m just trying to go with the flow. We’re supposed to go see a band this weekend and I’m not sure if she would understand if I told her I’m not ready to tell people we’re together. She is kiko’s friend and I don’t think they know we’ve been in contact. We’re just trying to have a good time but I’m not that far in. I’ll just have to wait and see how things go.